How many things we lose in RL...how often do others harm us, our self-image? How often do we do the same to them, sometimes not even realising that? Every day. Every time you step out of your little box of alternative reality all the bitterness of the world comes swirling around you, does it not?

And even when you are alone, they never stop tormenting you, you don't stop tormenting them. We mull over the things said and those that should have been said.

What makes you think that in a place like this community, with all sorts of people around you, everything will be perfect, with everyone being nice and agreeable? It is a mirror of the world we live in. It distorts things, but it is a mirror nevertheless. I am a person with all my vices and troubles and thoughts...so are you. As in real-life, so in the land of imagination. There is no escape from the nature of man.

Some forget that, they want the game to behave like a single player game, where you are, quite literally, GOD! Not here. We are but a tiny speck, a pebble, nothing more. And we need to adapt to one another, make compromises, watch our ideals, ideas, wishes, plans, feelings, views burn with a flame as bright as you let it be. It is a good thing. It is what sets multilayer apart form single-player.

If you leave because of that...so be it. It is the fault of the world itself, not the community.