Friends. Relax. When you talk about butts and balls, it is easy to write behind a keyboard, pick words that you can hold on to. It is simply an event and you say you had fun.
Some of us have works to attend. I came back home from my work (it is 03.49 atm - yep AM) and the first msg I see is about some jimbo jumbo cursing all the way. Ease up.