Yellowfin Is Karst afaik, not OP, and he also confuses the hell out of me with that thing - so hard to distinguish between that.
@sindroms aye, issue is me and most people are lazy, me included, it needs flexibility and sharp mind to do good reactive RP that bounces off others. In a game that you play to relax and procrastinate on other stuff, ouch my brain
The answer is simple.
You are a participating person in a world you exist in as you You PLAY a ROLE, controlled by boundaries that your character could fit in or work with not alter or ignore.
The execution of Roleplay, however, is lost on a lot of folks.
Sometimes, when all you want is to gain your freedom, you must be willing to risk it all.