Sirius is big enough. I prefer just to avoid anyone I don't like.
No person, no problem.
Often though I'm forced to speak civilly with most of them.
being torn between different opinions about them slightly confusing.
I guess I just put different hats on, in which situation I hate them and which I can tolerate them, and even being a friend to some of them at the same time.
Although probably hating and being a friend at the same time is impossible as I was able to find out few weeks ago. Thankfully we were able to solve issues between us.
P.S. I find it actually a challenge in itself, being civil and polite in a mad closed community? Imagine being working and interacting with colleagues in a very strange company If you will do well in Freelancer, it would work outside of it as well.
P.P.S. My friend says though, there's no hope for me to get smth good out of it here. Toxity infection can't be avoided.
Honestly! You were downright hateful towards me when i first joined Darkwind! But you know i didn't let your toxicity get to me cause i don't let the infection spread!
It's all about not letting it get to you like i didn't let you get to me! Though your attitude stunk towards me i don't hate you for it! I forgive your ignorance!!
Thats all it takes, not letting yourself get all butt hurt over it!
Something that is commonly left out in these discussions about hatred in disco (which really is a huge problem) is that there are several different kinds of hatred.
There is the angry and open kind, where people feel they have genuinely been wronged, or are frustrated by inaction about a re-occurring problems that negatively impacts them or others.
Then there is the smug kind of hatred, where people harm others because they take pride in it, or where they intentionally don't solve problems and also make sure someone else doesn't solve it either, because that would hurt their pride.
(06-29-2020, 03:48 PM)FrodoTheFluffy Wrote: Honestly! You were downright hateful towards me when i first joined Darkwind! But you know i didn't let your toxicity get to me cause i don't let the infection spread!
It's all about not letting it get to you like i didn't let you get to me! Though your attitude stunk towards me i don't hate you for it! I forgive your ignorance!!
Thats all it takes, not letting yourself get all butt hurt over it!
Ops. Sorry for whatever I did there, if I was indeed hateful?
I prefer to vent away it by changing my approach/Sirius Part/Faction
or just going to play smth else for a time.
usually, it helps. Not every time though.
playing faction which is not related in any way to pew pew I think actually is great to remove the stress of war.
Dw i don't hold it against you ! I was just using it as an example not meant to bring anything up ! As i say i forgive - I was new we got into a spat or two nothing serious like some of the crap that you see or hear!
I didn't help to be honest getting defensive so i was also in the worng! I hope bringing it up didn't offend you!
But it just proves how mis communication can cause rifts between folks - If folks talked more and let their feelings known as opposed to airing publicly i think Disco would be a nicer place - well one could hope! But despite the bad theres a Lot of good in Disco left
0.0 should definetly be enforced more harshly, including on the official Discovery Discord where people seem to think rules aren't a thing ( which is kind of true tbh)
If you want to insult people just take it elsewhere. Many newer Players see the behaviour on various platforms and are instantly not wanting to play because of it
Last words are for fools who have not yet said enough.