Commune, follow the behavior of their people. I also frankly hate some people on this server. But I manage to understand my mistakes and correct myself. And I'm not trying to endure all my problems with other people on this game on the server. Learn to distinguish the line between play and life.
Just explain the situation: I invited one of your group. Flood began and some claims to my "Dead Hand" about the rules of the pirates (which for some reason thought of it six years later, but it does not matter). I somehow do not care about the opinions of those who are trying to somehow criticize me in the game. For this there is Skype/Discord/PM in Forums.