Well, I don't have that problem. I assume ya made the command which sets your death messages to system only.
The specific command ya most likely used is:
Quote:set diemsg <param> Allows you to reduce showing death messages
Options <param>:
* all - all death messages are displayed
* system - only death messages in the current system are displayed
* self - only death messages related to your characters are displayed
* none - no death messages