Read my sig for inspiration and I happen to fly in one of the most contested places in Sirius.
It doesn't matter that you die, it's the taking part.... :haha:
But seriously, if I get into a fight and it lasts a few minutes of adrenaline pumping button pushing blind panic, I generally consider it to have been fun - and yes, I am not unique in losing almost every time.
The only time it isn't is when you get nova'd at the start or you get team killed by an overzelous user of cap missiles.....*cough*Armin*cough*.
Get out there and have fun. Learn the easy stuff first like evasion. If they can't hit you much, the fight comes down to who gets carpol tunnel syndrome first (usually me at my age). Shooting at stuff can be learned later but the trick with that is to hit the thing you're shooting at.