Sorry, but you deserved every ounce of all the ribbing you got for posting this story in flood in the 1st place.:P
To be fair, I'll even throw this out there & open myself up to some ridicule: I spent years in the 'friend trap' because I was a wuss about a girl that I was crazy for. she was my best friend & I was convinced that making a move on her would ruin ruin it all. During that time, my regular booty calls were 2 complete needy psychos, 2 cute girls, 1 fugly one, 1 fat chick (never underestimate the fat chicks, they appreciate being appreciated & tend to prove it) and I swear to god, a chick that was Bull-D. gay and could totally kick my ass if she wanted to, but liked to get even w/ her girlfriend after arguments by cheating on her with straight guys.
Anyhoo, I didn't escape the friend trap with the girl I really wanted until I got off my ass, grew a pair & kissed her on a whim...at which point she said, "It's about goddamn time, ya pansy!"
Point is, so what if you like to think you have a few psychos watching you from the shadows? It ain't unique to just you & they get horny just like everyone else. Just don't ever take 'em to meet mom, don't give em your primary e-mail & never, ever invite them to roleplay with bondage gear