Well to consider it they're not lost causes. It's only inauspicious to have me as their receiver of attention. No matter on what level it is. "Being the temporary fix won't solve the problem." You'll never be satisfied in that method.
Taken advantage of those who are unable to defend themselves (mentally, emotionally either), or those who are in grief and sorrow is terrible. It's sad. (Not implying that for you, I am implying it as how I feel about THIS situation)
Using pain for pleasure.
Just not my thing.
I'm happy you can go wherever you want within your friendships, I can as well. At any time. However because I can does not mean there is a right to do so. That I'm entitled for it.
That I find perfectly content and swell.
Ridicule only "harms" if it changes something. I doubt anyone will change me through these forums or you or anyone for that matter. Sometimes someone might be influenced within these processes but very difficult to see it. You're commenting on my reaction to a situation that isn't easy to replicate so you'd feel exactly as I feel. Is fine. It's flood after all and I'm fair with it.
I have 30 something emails never exchanged one to any girl I've met aha. Never been asked for an email as far as I remember. Numbers though. Age old exchange.