If you haven't been married you won't understand a womans mood. Trust me most of them already have achieved that portion of their life by the time they hit 16 yrs of age.
At this age most are very defiant for part of the day, by the afternoon they a cherry and happy by the time diner comes around they are out for revenge and want blood because of a rumor.
In their 20 the mind games start to take hold, the manipulation and batting of the eyes and the swish of the hair and a sensual glance captures you- you'll by them a drink, then another at $5.50 a pop, and you think your in although you have to pay rent, the utilities and buy food for the week getting laid is more important at that moment so you spend your entire paycheck on a woman who had no intentions of sleeping with you in the first place and at the end of the night it's the cold shoulder and your now broke and confused, your buddies buy you a beer cause you have $1.20 left to your name now.
The beginning of the middle to late 20's their clock is ticking at this moment they are so judgmental on a potential mate so all the moods come out, and your put to the test of any kind of scenario you can think of, most of the time you end up failing horribly and no matter what you do your in the wrong even video caption doesn't save you because in their mind it's a steel trap she remembers everything you did, so your screwed either way. So accept the punishment and expect a cold shoulder for a week if not longer, so no sex, cold conversations, attitude, the remote is hidden, and you sleep on the couch with a tattered blanket and sponge tattered pillow, you eat by yourself having a TV diner that is still half frozen and what ever you do don't bring it up or talk about it unless she starts - this is a fatal flaw with guys who want to resolve the issue. Your a done duck if you think you can resolve the issue.
When they hit the 30's a whole new set of emotions start up and you see, the first few yrs were training for you now your in the trenches at the front line like the poor bastards during WWI it's duck and cover all the way, she realizes she is getting older her boobs are sagging like baseballs in wet socks or flap jacks on a grill, she has a belly pouch, and her butt becoming friends with gravity, her feet are swelling for no reason and 1 or 2 greys start to appear. The killer question and you can't ponder on this.....She'll ask if she is still attractive and beautiful? If you pause or make a judgmental comment your screwed and she will be seriously depressed for days on end so beat her to the store or always keep it on hand and buy Fat Free Ice-cream and sherbert all kinds of flavours and a bottle or a box of wine let her dwell and come to terms with it do not interfere with this she is a sleeping dragon right now and you will get the mental beating of a life time-the expression she will often say is !!! You gave me hope and there is nothing, I should have followed my career instead of you, you ruined my life! Well her emotions are all over the board it's hard when they look a mess and you have to say " Honey your perfect just the way you are" if you use this not smart they see right through that and well your a Done Duck again.
So I believe most women in some instances have a strong emotional grasp and sometimes it gets the better of them, but fellas we love them, cherish and admire the softness, and the comfort they can give us and we'll do what ever to make things right and keep them happy.
That is my thought about BPD for women. If you love her do what ever you can to make her happy even if it means we have to go through the step to have a long life partner, at the end of life she is who you remember and will miss the most.
