I personally (and a few others too) don't have that much of an issue with fighters feeding fighters. However, the fact that Gunboats and larger have so many b/b's, they can keep doing it over and over and to be honest it's just no fun to fight.
I understand that, from an RP perspective, you don't want your allies to die but if you want everyone to have a good experience when your faction is present, why sit there prolonging a potential inevitability by abusing your ridiculous number of bats and bots by feeding the fighters over and over, especially when the opposing party is outnumbered as it is.
It's like sundiving and basehugging I suppose. Some care, some don't.