Negative feedback regarding your playstyle is not automatically ooRP hate. The posters have merely raised criticism suggesting that you should try to spend less time isolated in your guard system. You are free to take it into account or consider the criticism invalid based on evidence or your experience. In addition, be honest with yourself: If so many people complain about it, maybe there really is a problem? I would evaluate alternatives. Perhaps we can see more of you in other houses, or in a conflict?