Once again you prove that apparently anything that is not positive and directed at you is out to get you. People have told you repeatedly that they are not out to get you, but that they want to help you by telling you you're making a mistake. You seem to have extreme problems differentiating between criticism aimed at your plans and criticism aimed at you personally. When people criticize your event, it is not an ad hominem. What you wrote in your last phrase there, however, is. This makes you extremely hard to deal with because you adapt a sort of one-track mentality where people are either with or against you, though this is not the case, since their lives don't revolve around you. I would highly recommend thinking a bit more before you post and consider that you are talking to people and not NPCs. Simple respect, really.