I found out recently after feedback given to my Corse
That you don't actually have to kill everyone you have a bounty on
Logging doesn't mean you have to shoot people at all but RP instead, even on hostile factions. If someone doesn't want to fight, let them leave, give them e.g. a rp demand out for example even if you are mortal enemies
And if they go at you - then give them that fight. Doesn't mean you shouldn't play the game! There really is a middle ground between /1*Sniff* /2 time to meet god and not logging
You know what - it's actually a fresh change of pace for both of you even though it feels weird at first