The problem is Them. I and my friends always get good fights from everyone but Them. It's always They who gank first, They who dogpile our snubs, They who buttcloak our capital ships.
It's Them who started this. They should get banned and that way we'll get fairer and better fights! We know better than Them and we always play fair and square with everyone! How dare They log in in the same system, at the same time, in the same year, to fight us, the benevolent fair fight givers of the DiscoveryGC community? Clearly, something has to be done, either by Haste or by Aingar, but to hell with Them and Their ganks!
... unfortunately, Discovery as a community has yet to understand who this imaginary "them" is, for "we" always know better than the other side, "we" always play better than "them", amongst other arguments. There's nothing we can do. People will self regulate or they won't, end of the story; not all groups will be the same.