I uninstalled FL, as well as all traces of anything related to the game and FLAM and FLMM. I logged onto my C drive's Vista area (I have a version of Vista on both of my harddrives) and installed everything there...
AND IT WORKS!!!!!! WOOHOO!!!!!
Now, the question is... why in hell didn't the server show up on the server list when I had everything installed on my D drive?
Oh well, at leats it's works on my C drive now :-D
Thanks to everyone who has helped me and failed, lol. It's much appreciated :-D