Sir, if more new players acted the way you do, our community would be in a much nicer shape. My advice to you is:
-join a faction: gives you something to do, and always friendly people to help. I'm personally in the LN, TAZ, XA and LR. Now, that must look a tad weird, bunch of letters:P. That's the Lib Navy, Zoners, Xenos and Rogues.
-keep an eye on the forum called RP Hub. That's where all the Rp goes on:)
-look out for me ingame (all my characters have the initials SK) and I can point out some fun stuff to do, or keep an eye out for any ships tagged [The_Angels]. These people are here to help you out:)
That's all I have the energy to write on an iPhone... Tazarus is a good person to talk to in regards to new stuff, as are Sassafras, Dusty Lens, HeavyMetalQueen and Malacalypse (People who o can think of from the top of my head, there are plenty of others aswell)