' Wrote:actually it is, coulnd find it back, but when the phantoms attacked my miner, only 2 of the 4 gave an engagement notice
It's incorrect because there is no such thing as an "engagement notice". Not in the rules, anyway. The rule is "there must be RP before combat starts up". Saying "I'm going to shoot you now" is polite, but not required. Once one person says "everyone, fall in" you pretty much know what they're going to do anyway... but the entire wing needs to have spoken beforehand.
For future reference on the "re-engage" thing, being shot at means you've been engaged, whether you shot or not. Think of it this way- if a transport got shot at by a pirate, didn't fire back, docked, and undocked with his BHG BC, that would be re-engaging would it not? Even if you don't go below half shield, Agmen has stated that "if it looks like an engagement, smells like an engagement, and quacks like an engagement, it's an engagement". (Note, that's not a direct quote, just a paraphrasing of it.)