1 and 2) The screenshots you posted don't quite tell me the whole picture because I wasn't there, and I was mainly getting the info from your side and from what Politus, or was it Kaze, not sure, posted, because I believe in their sincerity and impartiality.
I offered a possibility that some were confused, and that the thing was a misunderstanding, but if it is true that they asked if they could reengage for honesty's sake, you said no, then they should have not done so and, frankly, if you want, feel free to file a report, it's well within your rights.
Also, please refer to a lengthy post of mine some 11 or 12 pages ago where I talked about the issue of mutual agreements on bending, and I mean just bending, the rules for RP sake, but which is speaking in general. I just thought it'd shed a bit of light on the way I think.
3) Well, I don't know what the precise motivations of Herr Panzer were, but I don't, in general, see no reason why it is not well within Colonial RP to do quick strikes into Alpha, if need be, in order to disrupt the enemy's supply and patrol lines, but keeping in mind that Alpha is not really "conquerable" by standard means, and keeping it guerrilla-ish.
4 gunboats and a fighter, a bit too steep, perhaps, but it doesn't seem all that bad to me.
I don't see why the Outcast side should really have any complaints because their enemies are attacking them instead of waiting for the opposite situation.
4) Well, first things first, I wasn't there, so I can't have the whole detailed situation, so I don't know what the precise mission goal was. Why the statements differed, well, I suspect it might be because they just made something up, in case the one in charge wasn't answering the questions. A bit herdish, yes, some people following their commander without knowing why they're following him and what they're gonna do.
As for the deflection, well, as I said up there, quite a few Colonial people were posting ludicrous posts up there, making little sense and a big fuss.
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