First your allied list. I have to ask this because I see almost every new faction slap a bunch of factions on their allied list and assume people to do the same for them. So, did you ask those three factions ahead of time, or just slap them on there? If you haven't asked yet, I suggest moving them to Friendly status, then PMing the leaders of those factions about an alliance.
Some people get very mad because people slap them on their allied list without asking first, and it happens alot. If you already did ask0, then ignore me.
Second; Do you see Omicron Alpha as part of the area your guarding? Because you said all neutrals with be warned to leave and then fired on (if your going to do that, why not put them on unfriendly, and have neutral being people allowed, but not helped? Whats the point of a neutral list if you shoot them after demanding they leave the area?) I ask if you see it that way, because technically if you fire on neutrals with your 4-warnings thing, you would be encroaching the 101st's ZoI. They have the Guard system, and by ZoI, they have the leadership in the defense of Alpha from hostiles. You should probably refer to their policies when operating in Alpha, as 101st doesn't warn neutrals out of the system.