Generally we consider the word in question as a perfectly acceptable insult within role play. So as long as you aren't doing it clearly out of character, spamming it every other line or being more explicit than that you will be fine. So don't let that happen and your name won't have to appear here.
This is only a warning, (perhaps it should never have been posted, but aerelm is new to this and I'm sure we can find it in our hearts to forgive him) no harm done.