Ok, here's what I did, I got a friend that could see the server to tell me the IP, and I did the direct connect command, as soon as I went in game and checked the servers, after not being able to see it, guess what, I saw it...
Whatcha need to do, is go to your FL shortcut, and where it says target, at the end make a space and put in this: -s82.113.48.5:2302
It should look something like this (Copied from my PC): "C:\Program Files\Microsoft Games\Freelancer\EXE\freelancer.exe" -s82.113.48.5:2302