As a new person, I just prefer to maintain a condescending attitude towards any drama, abstract from anything that people say about other people and leave inRP inRP. So far it helps a lot even though I feel like I need to shout certain words out of my window sometimes. Hehe.
Anyway, I just decided to create some activity or whatnot in-game, work with factions of interest whatever their illusion-of-reputation-made-up-by-other-people is, send comms sometimes and concentrate on in-game stuff. Do I do it right already? @_@