Not upset, just disappointed with how you handled things. I would understand if you weren't there and 2ic or whatever did this, but coming from you, it was disappointing.
Also, I'm sure not all your members present in that 10v4 were happy with the encounter, I know at least one isn't, because he told me himself.
Anyway, moving on with our lives. You clearly disregard for how the other side sees a interaction, since main point is so you have "fun", and the other side doesn't.