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As if most of you haven't noticed, I've been away from the server for a good while now. For those who didn't know, my wife and I lost our unborn child a few weeks back and we have taken some time to ourselves. If you've never been through this, it hurts....it hurts a lot. While we both are mentally day to day, still having our moments, my wife remains disabled with some physical issues from all of it. She is diabetic and since we're in our 40's, it was a high risk pregnancy. Three weeks later, she's still having some problems and I've been taking care of her while she gets her health back.
I've also picked up extra shifts at work to offset some of the financial loss. With another theater production in work for me, I just haven't had time for much of anything. I'm also fighting to save my house. To this point, everywhere we have turned to for help either can't or won't so yeah, I'm a very bitter individual right now with everything going on. We really didn't need this considering everything.
To all my friends here, I'm not ignoring you in RP or threads. I just don't have much opportunity these days. I have left TAZ in capable hands and I have some good admin teammates.
Folks, I just need time....WE need time to heal and get things back together in RL. I hope you can understand that.
... sad news!
I'm sorry for your loss Doc.
Take care man,take care...
You need to be out of this for awhile,indeed.
Back when you have time and when you are in a mood.
... all the best wishes to your family.
I don't know how much the empathy of a random guy from half way across the globe can help, but I really am sorry to hear that. Take how much time you need, and take care.