Eh, I may be in the minority, but I've never had a big problem - even after being on the receiving end of piracy, explosions, ganks, and what have you. Never kept me from trading ships or teaming up, as I've seen a progressive change over time from wanton pews to more attempts at more sophisticated roleplay and collaboration. As far as group fights and being involved in ganks go, I think it's fair to say that at least one person is always going to rage, so I wouldn't blame folks for being more like: