This is a good healthy dialogue. Keep it this way.
As a bystander for some time I can give you an advice. Mold yourselves after the Disco. Do not try to mold disco to your image. Since it won't happen even though there has been imported clans who have tried that.
The best advice I can give you is to join an existing faction as a second character. Put BPS on hold (or for a very low profile atleast) for, say a month, while you enter existing factions to learn the ropes. This would give you more perspective and vision of BPS place in Disco.
There's always place for people who can be civil and nice and follow the rules. Pay attention to especially to the rules and you'll be a welcome addition to disco.