You and Pepe are a "notorious" case Thundy, everyone and their mothers (and their mothers pets) know the tale of Pepe the not-so-wise that fed up his kiddo with so much Nutella that nowadays kiddo bigger than him and poor Pepe need keep feeding guy w Nutella or else...
But is a rule, and newcomers are afraid (with reasons for that) of breaking it. I used to advice this: Contact an admin, explain situation to him, and prolly you guys will be ok. (In fact dunno if they would be but, then its admins problem