you can only see it as as being forced to RP because it's the only server you can still play multiplayer and actually interact with other people. this community was raised in a roleplaying environment as a choice, not being forced to do so. this community existed back when there were PVP dedicated servers you could chose from instead of this "forced RP bureaucracy". what's all your crying about? what exactly do you want? do you want the sudden removal of PVP rules the community has been running by for years just because there are a few hotheads that can't hold it in for 15 seconds? you're the first I've seen to complain about this rule.
like I said, nobody is forcing you to roleplay. stay in connecticut. the way i see it there's just you to complain about not being able to KOS. I have never been in a RP community in any game where KOS was a rule allowed except under delicate circumstances, but you seem to be coming from a different spectrum.