Fucking hell guys on staff. Stop having a clearly personal non-official conversation and then hand out kicks mutes and bans in the middle of it. Just, stop
If you throw in tantrums and personal biases that's fine - have your fun, you are people and do it for free. But then it shouldn't be you doing the muting or kicking from discord based on that conversation.
That's like acting hostile and negative towards characters In-Rp just becase of oorp hate, and huge conflict of interest/lack of taking your powers seriously.