Hello hmm with the picture of my forum, you will know who I am, Fenrir.
Anyway, now that this discussion is on forum and not discord, I will drop some of my thoughts and you deal with it as you see fit.
1. I understand you want a character who has the ability to use any ship. The thing is, to all logic, even a 50 year old man can pilot a fighter to teach new pilots in any field such as police, navy, you name it.
2. Leadership for young character needs to be taken with tweezers. If you take by example a vast house such as Liberty, Bretonia, Kusari, Gallia or Rheinland, even in real life, the chance a 28 year old woman would occupy the post of Director. But if you take, by example, Corsairs, chances are much more higher due of their nature and life conditions that are not the must favorable.
3. I don't really 'have' a problem in the general, but mostly the pictures you used (no I did not report for such) I think it would be preferable you use an AI picture generator. I know you want something like an albino young woman. With an AI, you can easily generate them as it was once discussed in a discord server. If you are not sure how it works, there are people who can help or even youtube... but all to say, I think 'all the drama' started with the pictures themselves.