Steph is one of the precious few Liberty lawfuls whose RP and fighting abilities I respect. Going by both sides of the story, you should have just taken the hit and left. Bone up on the rules before you make broad sweeping claims disparaging a respected member of the community.
I wasn't there, but I've dealt with her as both an allied lawful and as someone on the end of her guns. Benefit of the doubt applies because.
Also, if you get angry enough that you're going to break RP and cross an irreversible line such as outright hostile action, just log off and go to bed.