Well that would be one ofthe disadvantages of being a Xeno, few places to land. Few systems with friendles, or even neutrals. But you can attack anyone and anything with anything because your Xeno. It evens out.
We would have this in server rules. Ignorance is no excuse, so if they say they didn't know, its because they didn't read the rules. And only someone extremely lazy doesn't. I've read the full rules in their entirety everytime a version comes out. And I've been here since 4.73.. Thats ALOT of rule changes/additions.