Well I was thinking the AW would come in sort of like a protector of HF. For example, we could do a territorial war between the factions. Fighting for control of the Omegas. The AW would come in only as defenders of the HF's controlled territory.
For example. Start off would be something like HF, Helghast, and AW would have Omega-41 and Omega-11 (or -5), and SCRA and sso| would have 49 and 47 (or 15). The AW would only be in Omega-41 and -11, and would not participate in any attacks on non-controlled systems.
This would allow us to be their allies still without turning the tables to drastically. We might still move through the other Omegas, but we wouldn't initiate hostilities, only defend ourselves and whoever we may be escorting.
During this SCRA and allies would be seen as KoS on our diplo list, but really only be KoS in the Omegas and Theta (And Vespucci).
@QV: "When your dead your dead." Means that in a fight, if you die, your out of it. If the fight is taking place at the station you spawn at, you just don't undock. Only after that battle is over can you reenter a fight.