Ah, well I can guarantee you I would not use such an underhanded tactic. I love cultures that deal in honor (one reason I like the japanese culture so much:)). However, you would not have known this, so it's understandable I suppose. I still think I was wronged, but I did something wrong as well, so I have no right to really say anything.
I do apologize for doing that, and even in a very unfair situation, I will just let myself be killed.