both me and exile dont log on the forums anymore, if at all mate. the server currently is undergoing a change, and is now running feed the beast, and is on whitelist. (this is mainly a test atm, but depending on the kind of response we get we'll make a decision).
the server IP is gamesjunkyard.com. you need to get feed-the-beast from here: http://feed-the-beast.com/#download_wrapper , and run the game through the ftb launcher (thats it, no fancy installation required, just run exe, and login with mc profile info and play).
you will prolly need to be added to whitelist. chances of me responding here are very slim since i rarely come here, but feel free to drop me a message on skype, or contact me through other people playing if need be.