(08-13-2019, 02:09 PM)Chuba Wrote: people make these threads to feel better about themselves
Now, I wonder how to explain in a non condescending way that that statement is quite condescending .
The reason I raise this topic is not to feel better about myself, it's an attempt to turn things around for the better of the community.
We can all be very defeatist about "we are just people that are too horrible to change" but I am already seeing people here that are open to change.
Perhaps that takes courage, do you think it's fair, for us to ridicule those attempts?
(08-13-2019, 02:09 PM)Chuba Wrote: people make these threads to feel better about themselves
Now, I wonder how to explain in a non condescending way that that statement is quite condescending .
The reason I raise this topic is not to feel better about myself, it's an attempt to turn things around for the better of the community.
We can all be very defeatist about "we are just people that are too horrible to change" but I am already seeing people here that are open to change.
Perhaps that takes courage, do you think it's fair, for us to ridicule those attempts?
What was it you said to me about balanced fights? “Apologies mean nothing if you dont act on them”.
For me, at the time, I chose to tell myself that there was at least one guy who didn't like me, and that's the way it was. But it's a bit of a shame to have people who call themselves masters of the game and think only in their own way, I don't like you, and since I decide, I do what I want. I understand that it is difficult not to have a preference, but this should not have any impact on the order of the game!
I have no idea if this is aimed at me or a generalisation of the Staff.
I hold you no ill will (nor anybody else for that matter). If I did, I wouldn't spend the amount of time I do helping people with their problems.
no, nothing against you nor everyone in mod/dev/admin, i said, at the time, I noticed a fierceness against me, that's all.
Against you, what would i say? you helped me several and several time. Fortunately that you was here!
To joke a bit, we have potentially 67 codes somewhere but maybe not somewhere.
(08-13-2019, 02:29 PM)Wesker Wrote: What was it you said to me about balanced fights? “Apologies mean nothing if you dont act on them”.
The irony.
So let's act on them.
I don't think it's too much to ask from people to act on their promises, or at least try to.
You and me can give the good example Wesker, by refraining from showing insensitive, toxic, dismissive, passive-agressive, you name it, behaviour.
Sure, we'll be prone to failing at it sometimes, but giving the good example is the least we can do.
(08-13-2019, 10:30 AM)Sombra Hookier Wrote: And for god's sake. don't let anyone tell you what you have to do in Discovery. Do only things that are giving you fun. If possible, without rule violations.