' Wrote:Their crazy realize it. Define yourself by yourself hope to god you survive.
Research methods of self sufficiency, no more of this escape via pc/ complain about it drama you know what the problem is gtfo.
none of this i cant crap whether you say you can or cant your right.
If you paid any attention to the beginning and end, you'd realize that I was not stressed out when I wrote this.
The point of this was not to complain -- it was to point out various different annoying situations; everyone's been in a situation where a hypocritical person has told them they have a problem, when the person bringing it up has the real problem.
These are situations that aren't very pleasant at the time, but can be amusing to talk about afterwards if you don't look at everything from a negative angle.
As for the "gtfo". I already am; first semester of college starts in about a week, I plan to get an engineering degree, hopefully as far as a master's, and then leave. I'm going to a very cheap college, so paying won't be too much of an issue with financial aid backing me up. Although I only get about $400 of federal aid per semester, since my dad makes a decent salary, he just wastes it all on vodka and other things.
No. My dad's obsessed with trying to get her to like him, so he does everything she wants. Of course, that's never gonna happen, she doesn't like him, but that hasn't stopped him from proposing to her and spending hundreds of dollars taking her out to all sorts of restaurants that I've never even stepped a foot in myself. He also takes her shopping and buys whatever she wants when she's only shopping for fun. Yeah, she's kinda taking advantage of him, she has to know what he's trying to do, and she's accepting everything even though she knows he'll never get what he wants in return.
Heh! Assuming any of this is true, You seem to want to complain rather than man up & solve your own problem.
The solution is obvious & already said. You're eighteen, so your father's lifestyle is no longer your problem. Get a job & move out. . If you are unwilling to remove yourself from what makes you unhappy, then you must be perfectly content with being unhappy...Simple as that.
' Wrote:Heh! Assuming any of this is true, You seem to want to complain rather than man up & solve your own problem.
The solution is obvious & already said. You're eighteen, so your father's lifestyle is no longer your problem. Get a job & move out. . If you are unwilling to remove yourself from what makes you unhappy, then you must be perfectly content with being unhappy...Simple as that.
Firstly, I'm not 18. Secondly, I'm going to college and do plan to move out. Thirdly, I'm not here to complain, I'm here to point out the hypocrisies that many people can relate to. I'm sure everyone here has had somebody with bad habits criticize them for their habits which aren't so bad. These threads are for amusement, not whining.
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1) an extremely minor nitpick considering you list your birthday as less than a week away
2) good for you. Have a good time, but don't waste it.
3) on the contrary, this wall of text is a huge string of complaints...You start by complaining that your dad blasts the most depressing music you think has ever been written when he's not sitting on the couch watching TV. You further complain that he can't play his guitar well enough to your liking, and that he drinks & smokes too much. That was simply the beginning of the complaints you go on to complain about the chick & her dog, it's size, it's smell, yadda, yadda, yadda.
The whole text wall is like that
I get that you just wanna vent with all these threads you're making & call it something else, but the bottom line w/ 'em all is, you're trying too hard to enlighten yourself.
imho, go settle into your dorm room, then go to a coffee shop right off campus, get wired on caffene & debate god & society w/ others in the shop or something. You'll learn more then about what you only believe you think you know now.
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1) an extremely minor nitpick considering you list your birthday as less than a week away
2) good for you. Have a good time, but don't waste it.
3) on the contrary, this wall of text is a huge string of complaints...You start by complaining that your dad blasts the most depressing music you think has ever been written when he's not sitting on the couch watching TV. You further complain that he can't play his guitar well enough to your liking, and that he drinks & smokes too much. That was simply the beginning of the complaints you go on to complain about the chick & her dog, it's size, it's smell, yadda, yadda, yadda.
The whole text wall is like that
I get that you just wanna vent with all these threads you're making & call it something else, but the bottom line w/ 'em all is, you're trying too hard to enlighten yourself.
imho, go settle into your dorm room, then go to a coffee shop right off campus, get wired on caffene & debate god & society w/ others in the shop or something. You'll learn more then about what you only believe you think you know now.
Response to your response 1: It's not a "nitpick". If I tried to assert my rights as an independent citizen when I'm a few days away from 18, the government would not say "close enough". Until then, I own nothing. Even if I earn my own money, anything I buy is property of my father, and he has all freedom to break things when he runs out of ways to assert his point in an argument, which is pretty often. My birthday's coming up pretty soon, and then I'll finally have some rights. Of course, I won't be able to assert my rights until I can finish college and get a job that pays well enough to buy my own place, since until then I'm still under my father's roof, and he can still legally continue to break things that I will then legally own, since they're in his house. But I can live with that, I've done it my whole life and a few more years won't be a big deal. As long as I know I'll be out after college.
Off-topic: Although, that's in question as well. He often starts fist-fights with me, and then calls the police when I hit him back. For now, they know I'm defending myself, but after I'm an adult, I'll have to worry about whether or not they'll arrest me, since he's always hurt worse than me, they won't believe that he's the one starting the fights.
I don't have enough money to afford a dorm, I won't be moving out until after college, when I can get a full-time job. Until then, I'm still going to be living here.
I'm not here to complain, I was talking about things, and citing examples. If the subject is negative, the examples will be negative. If the subject is positive, the examples will be positive.
This is a rant, not a bitching session. There is a difference, as a rant applies to a more general concept, usually something that happens all over the world. In this particular rant, I was talking about the way that people criticize everyone else's habits, when they themselves are living examples of bad habits. Everyone in the world knows somebody like that, and I was merely citing a few examples from my own experience.
If all I was here to do was vent, I'd do it in a chat session, which I do occasionally.
Also, somewhat off-topic but relates to what else you'd said, caffeine doesn't wire me. And I don't really debate much about god. That's a pretty touchy subject, and many people will fight anyone who believes differently than them in anything regarding their god.
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